Okay, so you’re back on the dating scene and have vowed to give swiping a proper go. Cue the search for the best dating sites for over 40s — because, sadly, meeting romantic partners in real life just isn’t the reality right now.
You’re not alone in wishing this wasn’t the case, with new research by Cherry revealing that 58% of Brits feel exhausted by the process of superficial swiping and online dating, while another 40% say dating apps have decreased their motivation to meet someone and spark up a meaningful long-term relationship.
However, we like to think of dating apps as an opportunity to cross paths with people you might not ever meet in reality. For me and my partner of six months, while we knew some of the same people, we likely would never have collided without the help of Hinge.
So, if you’re ready to get serious, read on for our (extensive) guide to the best dating apps and sites for over 40s, approved by relationship experts and single GLAMOUR editors. Yep, we’ve made the first move and examined a host of the 1,400 (!) dating platforms available for mature singles in the UK, including Match.com, eHarmony, Bumble and Tinder. You’re welcome.
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The best dating sites for people over 40, at a glance:
- Best for Serious Relationships: Match
- Best for Single Parents: Stir
- Best for Younger Matches: Hinge
- Best for LGBTQ+: HER
Ahead, the best dating apps for people over 40 in 2025, according to relationship experts:
It’s the OG dating platform and continues to be called on by mingle-ready singles for a reason. If you’re over 40 and want a user-friendly app, top-notch algorithm, and ability to connect with serious matches, this is a solid option. “Match continues to be one of the best dating apps—particularly for people over 40 — if you’re looking for serious dating opportunities,” says Kayode. Users are often financially invested in the app and, in turn, invest in finding a match.
According to the brand’s website, 44% of Match members are between the ages of 30 and 49, 37% are over 50, and 59% are single parents. Match also services 24 countries and territories, making it a helpful option if you’re searching for international love.
- Pros: Screening questions and icebreaker prompts; financial investment means potentially more committed matches.
- Cons: Premium membership options and features can be pricey.
- Cost: Free to join, but paid-for plans start at £12.99.
- Available: uk.match.com, App Store, and Google Play.
This has been one of the most highly trusted platforms for over 20 years. More than two million people have found love on eharmony, according to the brand — and reports say that’s due to the in-depth matching system and sophisticated algorithm.
