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This is the life advice Brits would give their younger selves


Life comes with tough lessons to learn (Picture: Getty Images/iStockphoto)

It’s always clearer with hindsight.

There’s something in listening to the advice of those who’ve already been through it, and so we’re grateful Thortful.com asked the public to share the things they wish they knew at a younger age.

After a public vote, the wisest messages were picked.

The common themes were self-love, confidence, and worrying less – the things young people typically struggle with.

Deep down, we’re all looking for reassuring guidance and comfort from those more experienced.

Some are tough lessons to learn, like: ‘Don’t believe that everyone who says they care about you has your best interest at heart,’ which made the list.

Experience is the greatest teacher however, and life coach Rebecca Lockwood says: ‘The most important thing to remember is that no one has all their stuff together, and so on the outside looking in it may appear that they do, which is why you compare the back end of your life to the shop front of their lives.

‘It’s so important to check in with yourself and what’s important to you, and be guided from within or you may find yourself in a place with no idea how you got there.

‘What do you want in life, what is important to you, how do you want your life to look, feel, sound and be like?,’ advising that it doesn’t need to match anyone else.

These were the top pieces of advice people voted for:

  1. Believe in your gut reaction.
  2. Don’t get married so young – enjoy life and travel more.
  3. Don’t beat yourself up about every little mistake – everyone makes mistakes.
  4. Enjoy life and try not to worry too much.
  5. Invest time in studying!
  6. Be honest and helpful for all.
  7. Love yourself as you are loveable and be true to yourself.
  8. To be less anxious about everything and stop overthinking things.
  9. Don’t put things off until tomorrow.
  10. Just enjoy yourself and be carefree as long as you can.
  11. Learn from mistakes.
  12. Live life to the full.
  13. Be you all the time.
  14. Listen to your parents.
  15. Go into further education.
  16. Don’t worry about what you look like.
  17. Don’t worry so much about what people think of you.
  18. Don’t believe that everyone who says they care about you has your best interest at heart.
  19. There is no rush, take your time and find out what you want to do.
  20. Love yourself more and be happy with what you have – life is not a competition.

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