JENNIFER Lopez’s secret to success is that she is kind to herself, says celebrity knowledge power-house Rob “Naughty But Nice” Shuter in his new top rated, self help book ‘The 4 Word Answer: Who Are You in 4 Words.”
Rob, who has worked with some of the biggest stars in the world, including Jennifer Lopez, P. Diddy, Alicia Keys, Jessica Simpson, Jon Bon Jovi and even British Royalty, has his first book out with exclusive insights into why the celebrities he’s worked with are so wildly successful.
When it comes to JLo, Rob told The Sun: “Kindness is the secret to success! Every single successful person I have ever met is kind enough to themselves to be comfortable in their own skin. I have seen firsthand that no one is kinder to themselves than Jennifer Lopez.
“Nothing is kinder than accepting yourself. Jennifer doesn’t say cruel things to herself. That voice telling us that we are ‘not good enough’- it has to be silenced.”
‘FOUR SIMPLE WORDS’
Rob added, “Jennifer believes that if they can’t be kind, they have to go! You are not broken—but the way you have been thinking about yourself is.”
As Rob explained to The Sun, The 4 Word Answer is a mindset.
“Every super-successful person I have ever met could describe themselves in just a few simple words. Entire marketing, branding, and PR departments’ only job is to figure this out and then promote it. It was the most important question you will ever ask: ‘Who am I?’”
“Only those comfortable enough in their own skin know the answer. And only those who know the answer will be successful. I’m going to help you discover who you are in just 4 words.” Rob added.
Another important word that successful people share is smart, Rob said, adding that he has a whole chapter on how Jessica Simpson embodies this idea.
“Jess, like so many other successful people believes that the only thing that makes anyone smart is their willingness to try. Smart thinking about winning, not losing – it’s a positive mind set.”
Diddy also gave Rob an important perspective on success.
‘REJECTION IS A GIFT’
“Diddy taught me that the most important person in your life is you. He knows that by the time they treat you like you are important; you realize you never needed them. When people don’t like you, leave.
“Diddy understands that rejection is an important gift. But the most important lesson I learned from Diddy is if you are not doing the work, you don’t deserve the results.”
Rob added that one of the most powerful quotes he’s heard from a celebrity he’s worked with is Diddy.
“Diddy told me – ‘f you are chasing your dreams, you are not running fast enough.’”
Rob’s top rated book is available here on Amazon and at other retailers worldwide.
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