First dates and phone calls to strangers among most stressful situations in life, research reveals

FIRST dates and making phone calls to strangers are among the most stressful situations in life, research reveals.

Other things likely to stress out Brits include worries about upsetting a pal, a disagreement with a partner or family problems.

Some of us hate phoning a stranger, a new survey has found


Some of us hate phoning a stranger, a new survey has foundCredit: Getty

Accidentally liking someone’s old photo on social media is another big concern, according to the results.

A study of 2,000 UK adults found deadlines for work, bumping into an ex-partner and forgetting something important are other things which cause unnecessary distress.

They’re among the top 30 most stressful situations in life, according to new research, along with first dates, work presentations and phoning strangers.

But running late to something like an appointment or a meeting proved to be more traumatic than having a job interview.

Money and health top the worry list, while others feel tense when there are tight deadlines coming up, they have to see people after the Covid lockdown.

But almost half of those surveyed by OnePoll said their stress is caused by lots of little things rather than one big thing.


Almost three-quarters will avoid stressful situations (72 per cent), while half will deliberately put them off if they are already feeling anxious.

It emerged that stress manifests itself in many ways, with more than half of adults becoming more irritable and 54 per cent feeling depressed.

Lacking sleep (45 per cent) and struggling to concentrate (36 per cent) are other side effects of stress.

And two-thirds admit their skin suffers, either by developing problem skin or dryness.

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According to the research, common strategies to combat stress include reading a book, gardening, talking to friends or family about it or spending time with a pet.

Other techniques include saying no to things, mindfulness – and even sex.

Although, only one-quarter admitted to eating healthier food to tackle intense periods, as two in five are more likely to eat fast food instead.

But when the worry does kick in, 31 per cent of those who suffer from skin issues as a result believe they look more tired.

Three-quarters will then go on to feel even worse due to their irritated skin, although one in four will stop taking care of it during these periods.

The brain triggers the release of adrenaline and cortisol, two important stress hormone

Dr Gaby Prinsloo

In addition to immediate effects on our wellbeing and mood, long-term stress generally impairs overall health, linked to weakened immunity, poor hormonal control and accelerated ageing.

Dr Gaby Prinsloo, medical director at International Institute for Anti-Ageing (iiaa), said: “When we are stressed, the brain triggers the release of adrenaline and cortisol, two important stress hormones, into the body.

“Stress hormones act directly on the skin to alter skin cell growth, increase sebum production, increase inflammation and impair immunity.”

Dr Gaby recommends relaxing practices before sleep, regular exercise to boost serotonin levels in the brain, balanced diet and breathing exercises, as some of the first steps to reduce the feeling of stress.

She added: “A comprehensive skincare plan can ameliorate stressed skin but easing stress in general is vital for wellbeing.”

Lorraine Perretta, head of nutrition at skincare supplement brand Advanced Nutrition Programme, which commissioned the research, said: “Stress can be nerve wracking, exhausting, and motivating all at the same time.

“We have seen a rapid rise of ‘micro-stressors’ in the recent years and one thing is very clear – these have an impact on us both externally and internally.

“Stress can affect our health by triggering stomach issues and insomnia, but also causing skin problems, such as dryness and hyperpigmentation.”


  1. Health problems
  2. Financial problems
  3. Family problems
  4. Running late
  5. Job interview
  6. Forgetting something important you had to do
  7. Not being able to get to sleep
  8. A disagreement with a partner
  9. Traffic
  10. Worrying you have upset a friend


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