I’m married to a twin and, although I love her, her sister is a very sexy woman with a wonderful deep voice.
Anyway, my wife was in hospital having our daughter. I visited her one evening and her twin sister drove me home. She ended up coming in for a cup of tea and one thing led to another – it didn’t help that she was wearing black stockings, which I’ve always found a turn-on.
We went to bed and it felt almost as if she’d drugged me! She left, but the morning after she came back and stayed for the whole day. Since then, we’ve often met on a Saturday afternoon to make love in her car or, if the weather is good, outdoors in the grass, which we both love.
I’m in her power, even though I know it’s all wrong. I do love my wife and child, but her sister has me where she wants me. I should walk away, but she just has this hold over me and I don’t know what to do about it.
I feel better having shared this, but I’d really like your advice.
You’re blaming the black stockings and your sister-in-law, as if you have no control over yourself. Come on! How about accepting half the responsibility for getting into this affair?
Surely, you don’t need me to tell you that what the two of you are up to, betraying your wife like this, could have devastating consequences for everyone involved?
And you started it while your wife was still in hospital after giving birth to your child! If you’re expecting sympathy from anyone, I don’t think you’re going to get it.
Look, if you care about your wife at all, end this affair now and focus on your marriage – whether that’s trying to fix what’s not working or accepting you don’t want to be married any more and dealing with it in the right way.
If you’re worried about your sister-in-law spilling the beans if you end it, that’s a risk you’ll have to take. You know you should walk away, so do it and then be very honest with yourself about why you’re in this marriage.